Mammamel
07-20-2007, 11:53 AM
I really do not get why folks are so obsessed with PH, but it seems they are. The first batch of comments were so nasty i deleted them.
From now on I will answer them, as God directs, I will no longer worry how the other posters appear with what they say, that is not my look out, they are responsible for themselves and their words.
This is the latest post, it appears on my AC article here:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/178284/living_with_an_internet_community.html
If any one from here feels moved to respond there, or here, please keep in mind who you are, you are a lady, a daughter of THE King, not a gutter snipe who needs to hurt others.
so here is the comment:
Quote:
Mel, we are here to warn good Christian women to be careful when joining PH, because there is a very good chance they will get hurt there. Not very Christian for mods to be gossiping about other members when there is a no gossip rule. very hypocritical
Now to be honest, I am getting tired and losing patience with several people about now who keep bringing up untrue issues for rehashing... or trying to read things into stuff i do that is not there. So my reply to them is this:
Yeah I see, warn people using the same tactics you accuse PHers of using... that is real convincing. I do not gossip about anyone on PH.
Do we discuss issues we have with members, like the trolls and such? Yep we do. If a member has an issue do we discuss how best to handle it? Yes we do. Otherwise it would just be me doing it all. Trust me no one would really want that.
I have little patience for whining, complaining and general idiocy. Like claiming Christianity while being nasty, anyone who read those posts before, would have serious doubts of the mental stability and character of the posters. Granted some on PH have done that, some may again do it in the future, however things are changing daily.
Former PHers have no real idea of what the site is now so they need to move on down the road and leave us alone, like we are doing them. Only one poster had a legit issue, and I dealt with that already.
As far as gripes about certain posters, well they need to go to THE PERSON they have an issue with. God says to do that, He does not say go and spread nastiness all over because some one else has, or because you think you were wronged.
Look here is the deal. PH is a Faith based Bible literal site. That means folks who value their religion above the Bible are not going to find it comfortable. We do not support the work of any preachers or other teachers who press their ideas above God, or over His word.
It also means folks who want to discuss the latest scandals are not going to be welcome. We can get plenty of scandal and stuff to get upset about all over the web.
PH is a place for like minded women to gather and support each other. Have we made some errors? Yes we have. Should we be pushed into oblivion because of them? Ummm no not unless some one else who is perfect comes along to do it. Since no one ever on PH has been perfect, no stones should be being thrown. Or did Christ get that part wrong?
Does that mean we will remain small? Yep. However anyone who thinks PH is meant to grow into a huge thing is missing the point.
There really are not huge groups of folks who take the Bible as their authority, and not some man made doctrine.
So PH never gets to be a huge 1 million member site, big deal. I don’t want that, I would rather it be small and really mean something to the people who CHOOSE to call it home. That includes some folks who have been on here since before I took it over 4 years ago.
Now what I do not get it this. I KNOW why I deal with PH so much, I do not understand why others can’t move on but are obsessed with trying to tear it down.
That however is an issue of their’s, not mine. I will just keep doing what I am doing, sometimes getting it right, sometimes not, after all I, like everyone else on PH am only human.
From now on I will answer them, as God directs, I will no longer worry how the other posters appear with what they say, that is not my look out, they are responsible for themselves and their words.
This is the latest post, it appears on my AC article here:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/178284/living_with_an_internet_community.html
If any one from here feels moved to respond there, or here, please keep in mind who you are, you are a lady, a daughter of THE King, not a gutter snipe who needs to hurt others.
so here is the comment:
Quote:
Mel, we are here to warn good Christian women to be careful when joining PH, because there is a very good chance they will get hurt there. Not very Christian for mods to be gossiping about other members when there is a no gossip rule. very hypocritical
Now to be honest, I am getting tired and losing patience with several people about now who keep bringing up untrue issues for rehashing... or trying to read things into stuff i do that is not there. So my reply to them is this:
Yeah I see, warn people using the same tactics you accuse PHers of using... that is real convincing. I do not gossip about anyone on PH.
Do we discuss issues we have with members, like the trolls and such? Yep we do. If a member has an issue do we discuss how best to handle it? Yes we do. Otherwise it would just be me doing it all. Trust me no one would really want that.
I have little patience for whining, complaining and general idiocy. Like claiming Christianity while being nasty, anyone who read those posts before, would have serious doubts of the mental stability and character of the posters. Granted some on PH have done that, some may again do it in the future, however things are changing daily.
Former PHers have no real idea of what the site is now so they need to move on down the road and leave us alone, like we are doing them. Only one poster had a legit issue, and I dealt with that already.
As far as gripes about certain posters, well they need to go to THE PERSON they have an issue with. God says to do that, He does not say go and spread nastiness all over because some one else has, or because you think you were wronged.
Look here is the deal. PH is a Faith based Bible literal site. That means folks who value their religion above the Bible are not going to find it comfortable. We do not support the work of any preachers or other teachers who press their ideas above God, or over His word.
It also means folks who want to discuss the latest scandals are not going to be welcome. We can get plenty of scandal and stuff to get upset about all over the web.
PH is a place for like minded women to gather and support each other. Have we made some errors? Yes we have. Should we be pushed into oblivion because of them? Ummm no not unless some one else who is perfect comes along to do it. Since no one ever on PH has been perfect, no stones should be being thrown. Or did Christ get that part wrong?
Does that mean we will remain small? Yep. However anyone who thinks PH is meant to grow into a huge thing is missing the point.
There really are not huge groups of folks who take the Bible as their authority, and not some man made doctrine.
So PH never gets to be a huge 1 million member site, big deal. I don’t want that, I would rather it be small and really mean something to the people who CHOOSE to call it home. That includes some folks who have been on here since before I took it over 4 years ago.
Now what I do not get it this. I KNOW why I deal with PH so much, I do not understand why others can’t move on but are obsessed with trying to tear it down.
That however is an issue of their’s, not mine. I will just keep doing what I am doing, sometimes getting it right, sometimes not, after all I, like everyone else on PH am only human.