Mammamel
05-09-2007, 03:24 PM
It has been brought to my attention that “some one” is telling former members that we are speaking ill of them. It may be several some ones, I do not know nor do I care.
So here and now for the record, I refuse to speak ill of any former members, even those who did cause me pain. I do not sanction anyone to speak ill of ANY former members.
The person who emailed me this time said she had been told we were bad mouthing her and wanted her to bad mouth PH in return.
Thankfully this issue was reported to me, and I was asked straight up about it.
Once a person leaves PH they are no longer my concern, unless they keep contact with me. However, going around behind folk’s backs making accusations, it not cool. If you have an issue with me, bring it to ME, if you have an issue with PH bring it to ME.
For one thing, I am friends with many former members and so I do hear back things that get said, and 2 I float around the web with several different names, so I see what is on other sites as well. (I am a member of over a dozen other forums most not as the prairiehomemaker)
It needs to be understood gossip is gossip and getting upset at PH because we ban gossip, doesn’t make it right to then turn around and gossip about PH or try to get others to gossip about PH themselves.
I doubt it is a current member(s) doing it, but I received an email with specific info on our updating so I am not sure.
So here and now for the record, I refuse to speak ill of any former members, even those who did cause me pain. I do not sanction anyone to speak ill of ANY former members.
The person who emailed me this time said she had been told we were bad mouthing her and wanted her to bad mouth PH in return.
Thankfully this issue was reported to me, and I was asked straight up about it.
Once a person leaves PH they are no longer my concern, unless they keep contact with me. However, going around behind folk’s backs making accusations, it not cool. If you have an issue with me, bring it to ME, if you have an issue with PH bring it to ME.
For one thing, I am friends with many former members and so I do hear back things that get said, and 2 I float around the web with several different names, so I see what is on other sites as well. (I am a member of over a dozen other forums most not as the prairiehomemaker)
It needs to be understood gossip is gossip and getting upset at PH because we ban gossip, doesn’t make it right to then turn around and gossip about PH or try to get others to gossip about PH themselves.
I doubt it is a current member(s) doing it, but I received an email with specific info on our updating so I am not sure.